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Thursday, April 30, 2009

Salaam ,... & Have a Pleasant Day

1. Skippy heartbeat when you think of him/her.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Tachycardia which may lead to ventricular fibrillation and Myocardial Infarction (Heart Attack).

2. Restless trembling of hands, feet and other body parts.

* You think it's: Love

#Medical possibility: Parkinson's Disease

3. Constant smiling.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Bell's Palsy

4. Absent mindedness, forgetfulness, inability to focus on tasks at work or at home.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Early Onset Alzheimer's Disease

5. Frequent or constant sexual arousal.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Nymphomania

6. Weakening of knees and bursts of energy when he/she calls or comes over.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Multiple Sclerosis

7. Inability to stop thinking about him/her.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Obsessive Compulsive Disorder

8. Bruising on neck, breasts and other tender areas.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Leukemia

9. Insomnia.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Benign Prostatic Hyperplasia

10. Feeling that you can smell/hear/feel him or her when not in his/her presence.

* You think it's: Love

# Medical possibility: Schizophrenia

11. Feeling that you know what his /her thoughts are and whats going to happen next

*You think it’s LOVE

#Medical Possibility…………MADNESS…
understand …?? ...

Wednesday, April 29, 2009

Ten Ways to Marry the Wrong Person?
by Rabbi Dov Heller, M. A.
With the divorce rate over 50% too many are apparently making a serious mistake in deciding whom to spend the rest of their life with.
To avoid becoming a "statistic," try to internalize 10 insights.

1. You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you're married.
The classic mistake.
Never marry potential.
The golden rule is, if you can't be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don't get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it,
"You actually can expect people to change after their married...for the worst!"
So when it comes to the other person's spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, - make sure you can live with these as they are now.

2. You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character. Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning.
Beware of the "I'm in love" syndrome.
"I'm in love often means, "I'm in lust."
Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person's character?
Here are four characteristics to definitely check for:
a. Humility: Does this person believe that "doing the right thing" is more important than personal comfort?
b. Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn't have to be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give to charity?
c. Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says? What s/he's going to do? d. Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable?Then ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?

3. You pick the wrong person because the man doesn't understand what a woman needs most.
Men and women have unique emotional needs, and more often than not, it is the man who just doesn't get it.
Jewish tradition places the onus on the man to understand the emotional needs of the woman and to satisfy them.
The unique need of a woman is to be loved, -to feel that she is the most important person in her husband's life.
The husband needs to give her consistent, quality attention.
This is most apparent in Judaism's approach to sexual intimacy The Torah obligates the husband to meet the sexual needs of his wife.
Sexual intimacy is always on the woman's terms.
Men are goal oriented especially when it comes to this area.
As a wise woman once pointed out, "Men have two speeds: on and off."
Women are experience oriented.
When a man is able to switch gears and become more experience-oriented,he will discover what makes his wife very happy then the man forgets about his own needs and focuses on giving his wife.

4. You choose the wrong person because you do not share a common life goals and priorities. There are three basic ways we connect with another person:
a) Chemistry and compatibility,
b) Share common interests,
c) Share common life goal.
Make sure you share a deeper level of connection that sharing life goals provide.
After marriage, the two of you will either grow together or grow apart.
To avoid growing apart, you must figure out what you're living for while you aresingle-and then find someone who has come to the same conclusion as you.
This is the true definition of a soul mate.
A soul mate is a goal mate . . . two people who ultimately share the same understanding of life's purpose andtherefore share the same priorities, values and goals.

5. You choose the wrong person because you get involved sexually too quickly.
Sexual involvement before the commitment of marriage can be a big problembecause it often precludes a fully honest exploration of important issues.
Sexual involvement tends to cloud one's mind. And a clouded mind is not inclined to make good decisions.
It is not necessary to "test drive" in order to find out if a couple are sexually compatible.
If you do your homework and make sure you are intellectually and emotionally compatible, you don't have to worry about sexual compatibility.
Of all the studies on divorce, sexual incompatibility is never cited as a main reason why people divorce.

6. You pick the wrong person because you do not have deeper emotionalconnection to evaluate whether you have a deeper emotional connection or not, ask:
"Do I respect and admire this person?"
This does not mean, "Am I impressed by this person?"
A Mercedes impresses us.
We do not respect someone becausethey own a Mercedes.
You should be impressed by qualities of creativity,loyalty, determination, etc.
Also ask: "! Do I trust this person?"
This also means, "Is he/she emotionally stable?
Do I feel I can rely on him/her?

7. You pick the wrong person because you choose someone with whom you don't feel emotionally safe.
Ask yourself the following questions: Do I feel calm, peaceful and relaxed with this person?
Can I fully be myself and express myself with this person?
Does this person make me feel good about myself?
Do you have a really close friend who does make you feel this way?
Make sure the person you marry makes you feel the same way!
Are you afraid of this person in any way?
You should not feel you need to monitor what you say because you are afraid of how the other person will view it.
If you're afraid to express your feelings and opinions openly, there's a problem with the relationship.
Another aspect of feeling safe is that you don't feel the other person is trying to control you. Controlling behaviors are a sign of an abusive person.
Be on the look out for someone who is always trying to change you.
There is a big difference between "controlling" and "making suggestions."
A suggestion is made for your benefit.

8. You pick the wrong person because you don't put everything on the table.
Anything that bothers you about the relationship must be brought up for discussion.
Bringing up the uncomfortable stuff is the only way to evaluate how well the two of you communicate, negotiate, and work together.
Over the course of a lifetime, difficulties will inevitably arise.
You need to know now, before making a commitment: Can you resolve your differences and find compromises that work for both of you?
Never be afraid to let the person know what bothers you.
This is also a way for you to test how vulnerable you can be with this person.
If you can't be vulnerable, you can't be intimate.
The two go hand in hand.

9. You pick the wrong person because you use the relationship to escape frompersonal problems and unhappiness.
If you are unhappy and single, you'll probably be unhappy and married, too.
Marriage does not fix personal, psychological and emotional problems.
If anything, marriage will exacerbate them.
If you are not happy with yourself and your life, take responsibility to fix it now while you are single.
You'll feel better and your future spouse will thank you.

10. You pick the wrong person because he/she is involved in a triangle.
To be "triangulated" means a person is emotionally dependent on someone or something else while trying to develop another relationship.
A person who hasn't separated from his or her parents or family is a classic example of triangulation.
People can also be triangulated with things as well, such as work, drugs, Internet, hobbies, sports or money.
Be careful that you and your partner are free of triangles.
The person caught in a triangle cannot be fully emotionally available to you.
You'll not be their number one priority.
And that's not basis for a marriage.

Many people are struggling because they have not used what God has given them.
God gives you an acorn, you invest it and it will become a tree! Stop praying for trees while acorns are lying all over the ground.
God answered your prayer for the tree when he sent you the acorn.

"The pity in life is that most of us die before we are fully born. Don't miss yourself" - Erich From?
Friendship is a priceless gift that cannot be bought or sold.
But its value is far greater than a mountain made of pure gold, for gold is cold and lifeless,it can neither see nor hear, and in time of trouble it is powerless to cheer, no heart to understand, it cannot bring you comfort or reach out a helping hand, so when you ask God for a gift, be thankful if He sends not diamonds, pearls or riches but the love of real true friends.

"Aku mencintaimu kerana agama yang ada padamu, jika kau hilangkan agama dalam dirimu, hilanglah cintaku padamu." (Imam Nawawi)

Monday, January 12, 2009

BeAuTiFuL LiFe.....BeAuTiFuL ThInGs......

nama aku syiqeen....ummmm....
Aku biasa jek...cuma minat sangat pada benda yang cantik walaupun aku tak bape cantik....
tujuan aku wat blog ni untuk semadikan suma benda yang aku suka dan cantik di sini....
harap korang pun suka.........
Aku nk blaja lagi walaupun agak malas sebenarnya.....
skunk aku da abis study kat PSIS @ POLITEKNIK SULTAN IDRIS SHAH.
aku ambik course it tapi tak pandai it pun.aku ambik sijil jek....
tapi tak kisah ar....
ape yang penting aku enjoy ngan idup ni.....

skunk ak kje senheng....nak bli brg elektrik cr aku la.....hahahah.....

Aku suka tengok wayang.....tengok sorang pun bleh bla lagi....kawan aku pun heran,tapi da fav aku.
Aku juga suka tengok drama jepun ke,korea ke janji best.....
Apa yang paling aku suka baca komik....komik cinta tau....banyaknyer adalah keluaran gempak....abez satu kedai aku borong sampai da takde buku jenis camtu yang aku leh beli....kadang2 terbeli sampai dua kali....tu ar tentang aku....
HOPE U ALL ENJOY............